try another config

lambdas/email_receipt_confirmation/lambda.tf

@@ -54,8 +54,18 @@ module "lambda_function_container_image" {
 
     ses = {
       effect    = "Allow"
-      resources = [local.ses_arn]
-      actions   = ["ses:SendEmail"]
+      resources = [local.ses_arn, "arn:aws:ses:${var.aws_region}:${data.aws_caller_identity.current.account_id}:*"]
+      actions   = ["ses:SendEmail", "ses:SendRawEmail"]
+    }
+
+
+    create_current_version_allowed_triggers = false
+
+    allowed_triggers = {
+      ses = {
+        principal  = "ses.amazonaws.com"
+        source_arn = "arn:aws:ses:${var.aws_region}:${data.aws_caller_identity.current.account_id}:receipt-rule-set/${var.rule_set_name}:receipt-rule/${var.chat_rule_name}"
+      }
     }
   }
 }