[FEA] Incompatible shuffle: skip origin check

[res-life]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
We removed the origin checking for some customer-specific Spark:

abstract class GpuShuffleMetaBase {
...
  override def tagPlanForGpu(): Unit = {
    // Remove the check of shuffleOrigin to adapt customer-specific origin:
    //   `REPARTITION_FOR_BUCKET`
    //
    // if (!ShuffleOriginUtil.isSupported(shuffle.shuffleOrigin)) {
    //   willNotWorkOnGpu(s"${shuffle.shuffleOrigin} not supported on GPU")
    // }

}

Add a config to skip the above checking for customer.

Describe the solution you'd like

    if (conf.isIncompatEnabled && conf.incompatShuffleOrigin) {
      // For customized Spark version:
      // e.g.: REPARTITION_FOR_BUCKET origin
      // skip the checking
    } else {
      // For vanilla Spark
      if (!ShuffleOriginUtil.isSupported(shuffle.shuffleOrigin)) {
        willNotWorkOnGpu(s"${shuffle.shuffleOrigin} not supported on GPU")
      }
    }