Fix (scaling/standalone): better switch from runtime stats to param

[Giuseppe5]

Reason for this PR

Currently, if we switch from training to eval before stats_collection_steps is done, we never update the value parameter to store the buffer value. This has a few side effects:

• When applying learned round, we might keep the model in eval model but still accumulate gradients. If the value parameter is not being used, no gradients are accumulated
• When exporting state_dict, value is not exported
• When doing PTQ calibration, current setup is such that the buffer is never converted to its corresponding parameter value, causing some of the issues mentioned above.

Changes Made in this PR

At eval time, during the first iteration the buffer is always converted to buffer.
The side effect of this happens in the case the user would want to switch multiple times between training/evaluation mode very early on in the training process. Although it is common to switch between training/eval to check loss one val set, it is usually done after enough iteration that the buffer has already been converted to parameter anyway.
I'd admit that it could be marked as breaking change for this edge cases.

This has been removed in a more recent commit. I believe there are no more breaking changes at this point.

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