[Features] Support Ops Constraints

[shanshanying]

KubeBlocks supports a handful of ops, such as start/stop, hscal, vscale, volumn expansion, restart, etc.

But some database (integrated as add-on) does not support all these ops.
For example. oracle mysql is standalone only, and oceanbaes cannot be restarted, and opensearch does not support hscale.
We should find a way to explicitly express such constraints for each databases, and these constraints must hold all the time.

[shanshanying]

This is a feature request inspired by staffes from OceanBase Community.

[shanshanying]

e.g. as reported in #5464, OB dose not support scale to 0.

[github-actions]

This issue has been marked as stale because it has been open for 30 days with no activity

[shanshanying]

Besides, our cloud will check if some ops is applicable to the cluster. if not, that ops should be 'grayed'.

[nayutah]

Implement it in Cloud Addon, not in KubeBlocks Addon