Harmonize normalizer behavior with regards to file_max_items and file_max_size

[sh-rp]

The normalizers behave differently for example if

  dlt.config["data_writer.file_max_items"] = 100
  dlt.config["data_writer.file_max_bytes"] = 100

are set. This needs to be investigated further. For example if the loader file format is parquet and the user is yielding arrow tables from the resource, the file_max_bytes seems to be ignore and file_max_items only is respected if the the rowcount of the yielded arrow table is smaller than this. We can either fix this, or if this behavior is intentional for performance reasons print a warning or info to the logger so it is less confusing for the user.