[Bug] PlutoGrid always gains initial focus in single select mode, need autofocus control

[KaushikGupta007]

Description

When using PlutoGrid in PlutoGridMode.select, the grid automatically gains focus on initialization. This behavior is not always desirable. There should be an option to enable or disable autofocus.

Steps to Reproduce

1. Set up PlutoGrid with PlutoGridMode.selectWithOneTap.
2. Run the app, and observe that PlutoGrid immediately gets focus.
3. There is no built-in way to disable this behavior.

Expected Behavior

• There should be an option like autoFocus: false to prevent PlutoGrid from gaining focus automatically.

Current Behavior

• PlutoGrid always gains initial focus in single select mode.

Additional Context

This issue affects user experience when using PlutoGrid in selection mode, as it might disrupt expected navigation flow. An option to control autofocus would improve flexibility.