Adding kwargs to cache to be able to add metadata

[romainrey]

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Feature request

Adding the kwargs to the cache function in BaseChatModel (update, lookup, ...).

Motivation

In order to control the cache retention and privacy of the data we want to be able to tie for example some userId or tenantId to SQL row that contains the cash of a call.
Being able to pass the tenant_id and user_id in the call to invoke and have the caching function pick it up would enable that.
It would also enable a lot more customization for a very small cost. In addition most of the function pass the kwargs so it is surprising that it is not passed to cache functions.

Proposal (If applicable)

Change the calls to update, lookups, ... See PR