DataTable - highlighted prop should be able to also take in string/string[] in conjunction with function to match rows

[jpfisher72]

This prevents easily highlighting rows in contexts where all the row info may not be easily available. For example, in the biosample tables, I want to be able to simply pass the name of the biosample to highlight, not the entire row.

Also while changing this, should make it so that the order of key/value pairs in objects passed to highlighted doesn't matter. Kind of annoying