requested changes...

modular_zubbers/code/datums/components/vore/vore.dm

@@ -383,7 +383,7 @@
 	pred.visible_message(span_danger("[pred] is attempting to [lowertext(selected_belly.insert_verb)] [prey] into their [lowertext(selected_belly.name)]!"), pref_to_check = /datum/preference/toggle/erp/vore_enable)
 	if(!do_after(pred, VORE_DELAY, prey))
 		return
-	if(!check_vore_grab(pred) || !check_vore_preferences(parent, pred, prey, assume_active_consent = TRUE))
+	if((!check_vore_grab(pred) && !istype(prey.loc, /obj/item/clothing/head/mob_holder)) || !check_vore_preferences(parent, pred, prey, assume_active_consent = TRUE))
 		return
 	#endif
 	pred.visible_message(span_danger("[pred] manages to [lowertext(selected_belly.insert_verb)] [prey] into their [lowertext(selected_belly.name)]!"), pref_to_check = /datum/preference/toggle/erp/vore_enable)
@@ -409,14 +409,15 @@
 	prey.visible_message(span_danger("[prey] manages to make [pred] [lowertext(pred_component.selected_belly.insert_verb)] [prey] into their [lowertext(pred_component.selected_belly.name)]!"), pref_to_check = /datum/preference/toggle/erp/vore_enable)
 	pred_component.complete_vore(prey)
 
-/datum/component/vore/proc/feed_other_to_other(mob/living/pred)
+/datum/component/vore/proc/feed_other_to_other(mob/living/pred, mob/living/prey)
 	var/mob/living/feeder = parent
-	if(!check_vore_grab(feeder))
+	if(!prey)
+		prey = feeder.pulling
+	if(!check_vore_grab(feeder) && !istype(prey.loc, /obj/item/clothing/head/mob_holder))
 		to_chat(feeder, span_danger("You must have a[ishuman(feeder) ? "n aggressive" : ""] grab to feed someone to someone else."))
 		return
 	if(!feeder.can_perform_action(pred, pred.interaction_flags_click | FORBID_TELEKINESIS_REACH))
 		return
-	var/mob/living/prey = feeder.pulling
 	if(!check_vore_preferences(feeder, pred, prey))
 		return
 	// check_vore_preferences asserts this exists
@@ -425,7 +426,7 @@
 	feeder.visible_message(span_danger("[feeder] is attempting to make [pred] [lowertext(pred_component.selected_belly.insert_verb)] [prey] into their [lowertext(pred_component.selected_belly.name)]!"), pref_to_check = /datum/preference/toggle/erp/vore_enable)
 	if(!do_after(feeder, VORE_DELAY, pred))
 		return
-	if(!check_vore_grab(feeder) || !check_vore_preferences(feeder, pred, prey, assume_active_consent = TRUE))
+	if((!check_vore_grab(pred) && !istype(prey.loc, /obj/item/clothing/head/mob_holder)) || !check_vore_preferences(feeder, pred, prey, assume_active_consent = TRUE))
 		return
 	if(!feeder.can_perform_action(pred, pred.interaction_flags_click | FORBID_TELEKINESIS_REACH))
 		return

modular_zzplurt/code/datums/elements/holder_micro.dm

@@ -110,6 +110,14 @@
 	ignore_abstract = TRUE // it didn't help still
 	item_flags = INEDIBLE_CLOTHING
 
+/obj/item/clothing/head/mob_holder/micro/Initialize(mapload, mob/living/M, worn_state, head_icon, lh_icon, rh_icon, worn_slot_flags)
+	. = ..()
+	RegisterSignals(src, list(COMSIG_ITEM_EQUIPPED, COMSIG_ITEM_POST_UNEQUIP), PROC_REF(update_visuals))
+
+/obj/item/clothing/head/mob_holder/micro/Destroy()
+	UnregisterSignal(src, list(COMSIG_ITEM_EQUIPPED, COMSIG_ITEM_POST_EQUIPPED))
+	return ..()
+
 /obj/item/clothing/head/mob_holder/micro/container_resist_act(mob/living/resisting)
 	if(resisting.incapacitated())
 		to_chat(resisting, span_warning("You can't escape while you're restrained like this!"))
@@ -185,12 +193,12 @@
 /obj/item/clothing/head/mob_holder/micro/attack(mob/living/eater, mob/living/holder)
 	var/datum/component/vore/vore = holder.GetComponent(/datum/component/vore)
 	if(!vore)
-		return FALSE
+		return ..()
 
 	if(holder == eater) // Parent wants to eat pulled
-		. = vore.vore_other(held_mob)
-		return
-	return ..()
+		vore.vore_other(held_mob)
+	else
+		vore.feed_other_to_other(eater, held_mob)
 
 /obj/item/clothing/head/mob_holder/micro/Exited(mob/living/totally_not_vored, direction)
 	// Transferred to a belly? Get rid of this before it puts us on the floor