Backport update to arrow 53.1.0 on branch-42 #33619

Job	Run time
Check cargo fmt	36s
cargo check	5m 52s
build with wasm-pack	2m 34s
cargo test (macos)	10m 37s
cargo test (macos-aarch64)	13m 14s
Verify MSRV (Min Supported Rust Version)	8m 9s
Verify Vendored Code	54s
cargo test (win64)	47m 55s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	4m 21s
cargo examples (amd64)	13m 30s
check Cargo.toml formatting	2m 59s
clippy	6m 45s
check configs.md is up-to-date	3m 13s
cargo test hash collisions (amd64)	15m 1s
cargo doc	3m 54s
cargo test (amd64)	10m 11s
cargo test doc (amd64)	15m 15s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	3m 39s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	2m 58s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	12m 33s
	3h 4m 10s

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