[ISSUE #8968] Introduce the clearRetryTopicWhenDeleteTopic option to enable precise external deletion of topics

[RongtongJin]

Which Issue(s) This PR Fixes

Fixes #8968

Brief Description

1. Introduce the clearRetryTopicWhenDeleteTopic option to enable precise external deletion of topics, eliminating the need to traverse consumerOffsetTable and thereby enhancing performance.

2. Add the setConsumerOffsetManager interface to simplify external customization.

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 70.83333% with 7 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 47.64%. Comparing base (9202de3) to head (6f6bbcf).
Report is 1 commits behind head on develop.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
.../java/org/apache/rocketmq/common/BrokerConfig.java	25.00%	3 Missing ⚠️
...a/org/apache/rocketmq/broker/BrokerController.java	0.00%	2 Missing ⚠️
...ocketmq/broker/processor/AdminBrokerProcessor.java	88.88%	1 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage      47.73%   47.64%   -0.10%     
+ Complexity     11774    11753      -21     
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  Files           1304     1304              
  Lines          91118    91136      +18     
  Branches       11692    11695       +3     
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- Hits           43495    43420      -75     
- Misses         42264    42340      +76     
- Partials        5359     5376      +17     

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