feat: support InstanceSet status conditions

[free6om]

fixed #7005

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 66.87117% with 54 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 64.84%. Comparing base (5b2c44d) to head (1437310).

Files	Patch %	Lines
controllers/apps/transformer_component_status.go	55.17%	24 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
pkg/controller/instanceset/reconciler_status.go	81.25%	10 Missing and 5 partials ⚠️
...ntroller/instanceset/reconciler_revision_update.go	47.05%	6 Missing and 3 partials ⚠️
pkg/controller/instanceset/utils.go	33.33%	4 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #7168      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   64.76%   64.84%   +0.07%     
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  Files         338      338              
  Lines       41793    41789       -4     
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+ Hits        27067    27096      +29     
+ Misses      12366    12338      -28     
+ Partials     2360     2355       -5     

Flag	Coverage Δ
unittests	64.84% <66.87%> (+0.07%)	⬆️

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[free6om]

/cherry-pick release-0.9

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