Add provider managed resource metrics

[BigGold1310]

Description of your changes

Add the standard managed resource metrics to the provider for each of the managed resources.
To support this feature, it also bumps the provider to the crossplane 1.17 version.
Fixes #166

In more detail:

1. Update crossplane dependencies to 1.17
2. Fixed golangci-lint to get rid of deprecated warnings and outdated nolint statements
3. Added metric feature to every managed resource

I have:

• Read and followed Crossplane's contribution process.
• Run make reviewable test to ensure this PR is ready for review.

How has this code been tested

Run unit tests and tried provider with metrics enabled if it emits the metrics.

[dariozachow]

can you merge the build sub module PR in your branch? #164

[BigGold1310]

can you merge the build sub module PR in your branch? #164

Rebased on current main.