refactor: replace custom atomic types with stdlib atomic

[kruskall]

What does this PR do?

Go 1.19 added new atomic types. Replace custom atomic implementation with native types.

Why is it important?

Add support for any upstream arch supported by the stdlib
Better use of race detector in tests
Less maintenance burden and simplify code
Fix race condition in runtime stop method (load+store is not atomic, replace with compareandswap)

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• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
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• I have added an integration test or an E2E test

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• How are we going to measure its adoption?
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[mergify]

This pull request does not have a backport label. Could you fix it @kruskall? 🙏
To fixup this pull request, you need to add the backport labels for the needed
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• backport-v./d./d./d is the label to automatically backport to the 8./d branch. /d is the digit

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Quality Gate passed

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0.0% Duplication on New Code

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