feat: build ComponentSet using metadata and an org connection

[shetzel]

What does this PR do?

Enhances ComponentSetBuilder.build() to use both metadata and an org connection when defined in the options. This allows metadata fullName retrieval from an org based on a pattern where the files are not in the local project.

What issues does this PR fix or reference?

@W-14284096@
forcedotcom/cli#2522

QA suggestions:
Use dreamhouse-lwc repo deployed to a scratch org.

1. deploy should work exactly as before the changes were made. Deploy "ApexClass:Test*", "ApexClass:T*", "ApexClass:Test*,ApexClass:Geo*", "ApexClass:Test*,CustomObject:Prop*"
2. retrieve with all requested files in the project. Retrieve "ApexClass:Test*", "ApexClass:T*", "ApexClass:Test*,ApexClass:Geo*", "ApexClass:Test*,CustomObject:Prop*"
3. retrieve with none of the requested files in the project. Retrieve "ApexClass:Test*", "ApexClass:T*", "ApexClass:Test*,ApexClass:Geo*", "ApexClass:Test*,CustomObject:Prop*"
4. You can even remove one of the Test* apex classes locally and keep the other one, then retrieve "ApexClass:Test*". It should retrieve all of them.

[mshanemc]

No required changes, just style stuff. Would QA as is if you wanted

[mshanemc]

meta: I know we turned off the complexity rule but that just lets this get worse with each change.

could there be a function at the bottom that returns [message: string, filter: [that matches your shape>]] ?

[mshanemc]

and maybe extract the logging stuff (lines 215-230 as a fn)

[mshanemc]

could also the iteration at 122 as a fn (pass in a CS and the metadata object, get back a CS)

[mshanemc]

QA notes:

throwing retrieves at my devHub.

✅ There are 5 object (well, one's a __e PlatformEvent) returned with -m "CustomObject:*" -o hub
✅ Then I did a -m "CustomObject:*Org*" -o hub and it got both the objects containing the word Org

Then I did a -m "Layout:*" -o hub to get all layouts.

-m "Layout:Contact*" -o hub
✅

Retrieved Source
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| State   Name                                             Type   Path                                                                                            
| ─────── ──────────────────────────────────────────────── ────── ─────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────── 
| Changed Contact-Contact Layout                           Layout force-app/main/default/layouts/Contact-Contact Layout.layout-meta.xml                           
| Changed ContactPointAddress-Contact Point Address Layout Layout force-app/main/default/layouts/ContactPointAddress-Contact Point Address Layout.layout-meta.xml 
| Changed ContactPointEmail-Contact Point Email Layout     Layout force-app/main/default/layouts/ContactPointEmail-Contact Point Email Layout.layout-meta.xml     
| Changed ContactPointPhone-Contact Point Phone Layout     Layout force-app/main/default/layouts/ContactPointPhone-Contact Point Phone Layout.layout-meta.xml 

"Layout:sf_devops__*" -o hub
✅ all the types for that namespace

✅ unsupported types produce a good error.