Backport of plugins: validate logmon process during reattach into release/1.9.x

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Backport

This PR is auto-generated from #24798 to be assessed for backporting due to the inclusion of the label backport/1.9.x.

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Description

This PR is similar to PR # 24538 which fixes an edge case on Windows where Nomad would kill random processes on reboot while attempting to reattach to executors. The problem was reported as half fixed, with Nomad still killing some processes on occasion. The previous PR did not fix reattaching to the logmon process, which is very similar to reattaching to executors.

Testing & Reproduction steps

Reproduction involves simulating this scenario via overriding the reattach PID when starting a task to a known PID (another bash session), rebooting Nomad, killing the logmon process, and listening on the reattach address.

Links

Fixes GH #23969

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