MONGOID-5658 Fix callbacks for embedded #3152

Job	Run time
ruby-3.2 drv:current db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	16m 58s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	23m 20s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	16m 47s
ruby-3.1 drv:master db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	17m 31s
ruby-3.0 drv:stable db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	25m 30s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:6.0 rails:7.0 fle:helper server	14m 54s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.1 fle:helper server	21m 34s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails:7.0 fle:helper server	15m 58s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.1 fle:helper server	15m 21s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.0 fle:helper server	15m 3s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:6.0 rails:5.2 fle:helper server	9m 48s
jruby-9.3 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.0 fle:helper server	31m 1s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:5.0 rails: fle: replica_set	19m 53s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:4.4 rails: fle: replica_set	19m 15s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:4.0 rails: fle: replica_set	14m 24s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:3.6 rails: fle: replica_set	13m 54s
	4h 51m 11s

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