MONGOID-5658 Fix callbacks for embedded #3157

Job	Run time
ruby-3.2 driver-current mongodb-6.0 replica_set	35m 17s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-6.0 replica_set	28m 54s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-6.0 replica_set	28m 18s
ruby-3.1 driver-master mongodb-6.0 replica_set	44m 9s
ruby-3.0 driver-stable mongodb-6.0 replica_set	31m 14s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	25m 4s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	29m 56s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	23m 30s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	32m 27s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	31m 45s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	30m 25s
jruby-9.3 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	46m 10s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-5.0 replica_set	28m 46s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-4.4 replica_set	26m 33s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-4.0 replica_set	34m 21s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-3.6 replica_set	26m 0s
	8h 22m 49s

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