add runtime stats for task create/update on the worker side

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Description

1. add runtime stats on the worker side to record the time for create/update task on the worker side

Motivation and Context

1. we are investigating if there is any contention on jetty server at the worker side

Impact

1. No significant efficiency impact expected

Test Plan

1. TBD

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