Refactor ref-counting code and fix ref counted releasing before aquiring #307

Job	Run time
📊 Static checks / Code style, file formatting, and docs	33s
🍎 macOS / Editor (target=editor, tests=yes)	22m 26s
🍏 iOS / Template (target=template_release)	7m 53s
🍎 macOS / Template (target=template_release)	15m 10s
🐧 Linux / Editor w/ Mono (target=editor)	34m 23s
🤖 Android / Editor (target=editor)	22m 37s
🐧 Linux / Editor with doubles and GCC sanitizers (target=editor, tests=yes, dev_build=yes, scu_build=yes, precision=double, use_asan=yes, use_ubsan=yes, linker=gold)	39m 35s
🤖 Android / Template arm32 (target=template_release, arch=arm32)	13m 49s
🐧 Linux / Editor with clang sanitizers (target=editor, tests=yes, dev_build=yes, use_asan=yes, use_ubsan=yes, use_llvm=yes, linker=lld)	31m 38s
🌐 Web / Template w/ threads (target=template_release, threads=yes)	22m 38s
🤖 Android / Template arm64 (target=template_release, arch=arm64)	13m 55s
🐧 Linux / Editor with ThreadSanitizer (target=editor, tests=yes, dev_build=yes, use_tsan=yes, use_llvm=yes, linker=lld)	28m 58s
🏁 Windows / Editor (target=editor, tests=yes)	43m 8s
🌐 Web / Template w/o threads (target=template_release, threads=no)	23m 0s
🐧 Linux / Template w/ Mono (target=template_release)	20m 43s
🏁 Windows / Template (target=template_release)	29m 27s
🐧 Linux / Minimal template (target=template_release, everything disabled)	14m 47s
🪲 Godot CPP / Build and test Godot CPP	8m 20s
	6h 33m 0s

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