cibuildwheel: move configuration to pyproject.toml #1259

Job	Run time
Build source distribution	11s
Build wheels ubuntu-20.04 (x86_64)	26m 18s
Build wheels ubuntu-20.04 (PyPy)	1m 54s
Build wheels windows-latest (win64)	4m 19s
Build extra arch aarch64 wheels	1h 52m 36s
Build wheels windows-latest (PyPy)	5m 2s
Build wheels macos-latest (all)	1m 12s
Build wheels macos-13 (all)	19m 23s
Build wheels macos-latest (PyPy)	35s
upload_pypi	0s
	2h 51m 30s

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