Update protobuf_grpc to v1.65.1

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This PR contains the following updates:

Package	Change	Age	Adoption	Passing	Confidence
io.grpc:protoc-gen-grpc-java	1.64.0 -> 1.65.1
io.grpc:grpc-bom	1.64.0 -> 1.65.1

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Release Notes

grpc/grpc-java (io.grpc:protoc-gen-grpc-java)

v1.65.1

v1.65.0

v1.64.2

What's Changed

• netty: Restore old behavior of NettyAdaptiveCumulator, but avoid using that class if Netty is on version 4.1.111 or later

v1.64.1

What's Changed

• netty:Fix Netty composite buffer merging to be compatible with Netty 4.1.111 (1.64.x backport) by @​larry-safran in https://github.com/grpc/grpc-java/pull/11303

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[loosebazooka]

something strange is going on here, but I can't seem to find the source. Runtime classes are missing.

[loosebazooka]

I don't know if I "wasted" a bunch of hours but I figured out the problem. The protobuf("com.google.api.grpc:proto-google-common-protos:2.41.0") dependency is super out of date (even if we compile here). Using the dependencies we need directly from https://github.com/googleapis/googleapis/ works, but kinda leaves us in a weird place as a library.