Move `dape-on-stopped-hooks' back to it's original place

There is nothing in the manual that says that a thread needs to be
stopped so let's just use the last adapter for reading and writing
memory.  If that is the case we should revert the hook call point as
it makes more sense at the end of stopped event.

dape.el

@@ -1730,7 +1730,6 @@ Sets `dape--thread-id' from BODY and invokes ui refresh with
       (dape--update-threads conn
                             (plist-get body :threadId)
                             (plist-get body :allThreadsStopped))
-    (run-hooks 'dape-on-stopped-hooks)
     (dape--update conn))
   (if-let (((equal "exception" (plist-get body :reason)))
            (texts
@@ -1740,7 +1739,8 @@ Sets `dape--thread-id' from BODY and invokes ui refresh with
       (let ((str (mapconcat 'identity texts ":\n\t")))
         (setf (dape--exception-description conn) str)
         (dape--repl-message str 'dape-repl-error-face))
-    (setf (dape--exception-description conn) nil)))
+    (setf (dape--exception-description conn) nil))
+  (run-hooks 'dape-on-stopped-hooks))
 
 (cl-defmethod dape-handle-event (conn (_event (eql continued)) body)
   "Handle adapter CONN continued events.
@@ -2319,7 +2319,7 @@ Using BUFFER and STR."
 
 (defun dape--memory-revert (&optional _ignore-auto _noconfirm _preserve-modes)
   "Revert buffer function for `dape-memory-mode'."
-  (let* ((conn (dape--live-connection 'stopped))
+  (let* ((conn (dape--live-connection 'last))
          (write-capable-p (dape--capable-p conn :supportsWriteMemoryRequest)))
     (unless (dape--capable-p conn :supportsReadMemoryRequest)
       (user-error "Adapter not capable of reading memory."))
@@ -2379,7 +2379,7 @@ Using BUFFER and STR."
 
 (defun dape--memory-write ()
   "Write buffer contents to stopped connection."
-  (let ((conn (dape--live-connection 'stopped))
+  (let ((conn (dape--live-connection 'last))
         (buffer (current-buffer))
         (start (point-min))
         (end (point-max))