fix mutex error

[zkokelj]

Why this change is needed

We experienced crashes on testnet and this is the most likely cause of them.
We were using only read mutex, but we also need write mutex to avoid concurrent write

What changes were made as part of this PR

Change read mutex to read+write mutex

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[BedrockSquirrel]

lgtm